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Cool website keep up the good work.

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Lindsay (GE 502-1985) told me about it

Sydney Australia

Tepanyaki

Too many to name

Hi Carol - This is Mark (you know the guy who broke up on tour). Lindsay and I were probably the tour "ring leaders"organising the first class section as you described, the seven dwarfs masks, the 20 alarm clocks set in the girls dorm in Amsterdam, the same birthday, the same clothes - hopefully you remember. Funny Lindsay has come across your website - he is organising a mini reunion of 502 in a couple of weeks at the Sunshine Coast. He has managed to track down Roger, Chicca, Kezza, Mark and Cathy, myself and possibly afew others. Anyway love the site, drop me a line if you want. Kind regards, Mark

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I justed loved your story. i stumble apon it when I playing around on google and put in Jeff Iveners name. He was my 6th grade teacher, I don't think he knows it but he helped me through very much at a hard time and I learned alot from him:D But anyway I'm very happy for you&his brother. if I remember correctly he talked very foundly of y'all.

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Originary from Uruguay, living in Oamaru, North Otago since 2003

Anywhere, if with wife and close to children

Sure, thanks for the useful "dictionary". I arrived to NZ with not so much English, did a masters degree at Otago, raised three children through the kiwi education system but still struggle with the bloody southern kiwi slang...Obviously in my first year, I went to parties with an empty plate the first time that I was asked to "bring a plate"...but thanks to you now I keep updating my language...All the best!

sorry the first 5000 didnt get through, in a nut shell kathryn turned her heart away from me when she thought i was having an affair, I was infact suicidal for 4 years and had disclosed the sexual abuse that was then ignored ie; whats that got do with now. i was not liked by her friends and this I know as this is a small valley and what went on in her new circle has been told to me . she recieved encouragement to leave me and end our family with no recognition of events that had contributed to the situation and her intent to remove me from any sense of importance in our family. she is a pshycologist and used none of her skills to help me just concentrated on her, what would she have told our children is f i had not hung on to my life with hope, all my hope and faith was in her, hers was too. i do love her and am distraught at the events of my life which have bought me to here . I can not ever take back anything but i can and do acknowledge everything that was ,I accept responsibility, but I am not alone

I cannot and will not live without our children, I will always love and respect Kathryn, she asked me if I did I should give her "space" and so i did , she did not communicate with me in any meaningful way, instead only turning to her new network and practicing the erasal process. during this time I was admitted to hospital and had major surgery in my abdomen, when Kahtryn bought the kids in I could see her actively distancing me so as to not empathise or sympathise,these things are felt.
I feel as though I have lacked in so many ways, but have been reminded by the professionals that there was no investment in me, the knowing of the abuse and not even talking about it afterwards, no support for counselling or even acknowledgement-not important. I struggle with this model as I love Kathryn as she is, there was never a thing I wanted to change about her, we went to counselling once and it was ****, it was a what dont you like deal, Kathryn didnt like me and I could not honnestly find a thing to change, its not about change ita about growth and that style immediately made me feel like I was going to be punished,reaction is to withdraw further, I lived unconciously holding on tenuously to life with only love and hope in my heart, I never had any malice toward Kathryn and never will, she is perfect as she is she just didnt want to see the guy who she knew was there, she felt it was her I had difficulty with and paid no mind to the abuse, It could have ruined me,ended me and still could, but I am honest now, one of the abusers is to face trial, no victory for me as everything he said would happen to that little boy has happened, he is unaccepted and unforgiven, fallen from grace and banished as if to have never existed. I cant be the one to change that but I can acknowledge and accept the wrong and can unravel the web which had been in my head, I can promise you that I will never leave our children and that I will always love and respect Kahtryn, I will never cause her harm knowingly, She will never forgive me or acknowledge the truth of her intent: intent is in the action, efficacy is in the result as kathryn knows as that is her pet subject, she has the determination of Noeline which you so well described and whom I also have a sense of love for, know that Noeline does love you and that she too has suffered hurt and doubt of self as you have gone through your journeys, she is a good person and a loving matriarch, you give her a sense of pride and love even if you dont think so . We all live in a state of grace when we accept into our hearts those we love even though the road has been dark and hard at times, this is what gives us the spirituality to experience true conciouss love. I am so sorry to have extened my hurtful behavoiur to your heart and to read your story made me cry with cognition, I have stood feeling unwanted for 30 years.I am humble and without pride before you, resigned to what will be, my commitments to you i shall keep and I wish you and your family every sucess and the gift of true loving.
Ps check out namaste publishing and www,sally-anderson.com, inspiring sites, sally is my coach and will hopefully be helping me train as an abuse counsellor, men are isolated for deep reasons, usually trauma from sexual abuse or violence are the culprits, and I hope I can help others regain conciousness before tradgedy affects them irrevocably as it has me . Take care, be in peace and may god bless you all. If you want to vent at me that is ok too.

You told me about it and I have spent the last 2 hours reading it all!

Hendersonville, NC

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Right here where i am now - home sweet home

I am just in awe after reading your story - I learned so many things tonight - you are truly an incredible person and I admire you for documenting your life and sharing it. I don't have a website but have written a book to be given to my children one day and just hope that they appreciate it as much a I appreciated reading your story. I feel as if I know you so much better now and I have truly enjoyed looking at your website. Thank you for telling me about it. You have done an awesome job of putting your story and your feelings on paper and I thoroughly enjoyed reading every word and seeing every picture. Thanks for sharing yourself with me!
hugs,
Sara

You were in Mums heart with the rest of us at the end. I was with her all those nights on my own talking to her and I want you to know that regardless of what you have done or felt, she loved you. I talked to her about you and Timothy and the children often in those last days and the tears ran down her face. You can use those hateful words and tell your lies as often as you like, you have no power over any of us any more. You've only hurt yourself. This is is all so very sad but your children at least are beautiful.

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Thank you for the wonderful pictures.
I feel a little bit connected to you, funny how photos can tell a lot about us.